Facebook.

Well I'm having trouble sleeping tonight, seeing as it is 12:35 am here in California so of course I'm messing around on the computer. When I originally made a Facebook I never intended to get so many requests and people wanting to be my friend. I didn't even understand the concept of it, I made one to have it just like anyone else but it has started to turn into a problem and a hassle. There are so many of you on there that once again I am having to watch what I say, what I post, and what pictures I put up. I think at the moment on Facebook I have 5,000 friends which is the limit and over 800 friend requests waiting to be approved. I get so much junk on there such as event invites, game requests, and everything else that I simply can't keep up with it. I made it originally to have one to connect with people and maybe try and find some old friends and ended up getting a huge fan base. I love all of the fans on there but I need my privacy just like the rest of my family so I am giving you the option to follow me on the fan page, which I will update just as often. I will still be posting blogs and everything else but as far as my actual Facebook page, It's time that I make it private. I know this will upset some of you all but I have to do what I feel is needed and right and this is it. I have way too many people on there and it is way too much to try and create a whole new facebook because I won't ever use one of them. I do appreciate all the support and hope that you all follow me on the new Facebook page. I hope everyone understands my reasonings, and that you respect my decision. I will miss all of  you on there constantly sending me messages, wall posts, photo comments and everything else but you can do all of that on the Fan Page too! I look forward to seeing the fan page grow past 5,000 because I believe that you all can make it happen!

I'm going to try and get some sleep now and will start this process in the morning! Thank you and God Bless.

xoxo Tish

Divorce.

Divorce is never easy on a couple, or on a family. Everyone knows that. When you go through a divorce you like to try and keep things private and you go through a lot of emotions. What people never understood was we went through it too, and we had the whole world watching. It broke news and that was it, let the flood gates open. We had paparazzi everywhere, we had questions coming in galore. It was difficult, we had nowhere to run, and we have to be extremely careful what we say. Our kids were being harassed for information about what was going on, we had stories in the news that weren't true, and so much more.. It was devastating. We were watching our lives fall apart and there was nothing we could do. We felt helpless and angry that people were so inconsiderate about it.

We went through the paperwork and the lawyers and were trying to keep things as quiet as possible and as normal as possible for our kids. It's one thing for them to go to school and tell their friends or be asked by peers that they know, that's going to happen but when you have paparazzi following you asking questions that's just rude. We wished they would have shown some respect during that difficult time. Our kids were trying to cope with it which was hard enough but to be honest the media made everything a million times worse for not only Billy ray and I, but also our children. We knew it was going to be hard but we never expected it was going to be that bad. We felt even worse knowing that our children had to deal with it and see these stories and everything else.

Like I just stated in my other blog, Billy Ray and I have decided to NOT go through with a divorce. We had decided to work things out for ourselves and more importantly our children. We have been together for quite some time, and celebrated our anniversary while we were separated. That was very difficult. We were both very upset and hurt at the time that he filed and then realized that it wasn't the right thing for us to do. He filed March 11, 2011 to basically "cancel" the divorce. We had spent the holidays together for the kids, putting all differences aside and then we had talked and discussed what was going to happen between us and that is when we decided to officially try and reconcile.

Communication gets lost, and I think that was our biggest issue. We were all on different pages and everything just got out of hand. Things are a little harder for us because we are in the public eye but we keep things as normal as possible at home. Things aren't much different than any of your households. We are happy now and everything is slowly returning to normal between Billy Ray and I, and with our kids. It was heartbreaking to see the kids reactions and watch them go through this as well. They took it pretty hard. Our kids always looked up to us as being "true love" and when we fell apart and things slipped out of hands they definitely didn't take it easy. We have learned that no matter what, you have to be honest and communicate and keep trying. When things get hard, don't give up. We did go through the process, we had lawyers and had looked at the paperwork and everything else which was nerve wracking and if you've ever been through a divorce you know what I'm talking about. We are very happy to be back together and are excited to rebuild our connection as a couple and our family.

I'd like to say God has definitely gotten us through another chapter in our lives, and our fans were amazing during this time of need. I don't know how many people said that they kept us in their thoughts and prayers but it was overwhelming! We appreciate the love and support and I hope these blogs help you see that we are a normal family too. This one was especially hard for me because it means letting my guard down and opening up to you all. Thank you once again and God Bless. <3

xoxo Tish

Update!

I'm sure a lot of you all read gossip sites and believe most of it if not all of it. Most of  it is unreliable. So i'm going to take some time real quick to clear up some stuff :) I'm not sure what you have heard and what you haven't so I'm just going to blog about it anything I can think of that needs to be clarified.

There was a rumor going around that Miley was seen out in public drunk. She went to Chateau for a meeting with Dr. Luke. The meeting ended up being late that night but there was no drinking or drugs involved. It was strictly work. She was not "stumbling" she was blinded by all of the flashing camera lights though. People don't realize how bright their flashes are and when you have several cameras going and snapping photos back to back it can be blinding especially at night. That's another reason why it is so dangerous.

I'm not sure how many of you all watched "The View" when my husband guest stared. Yes, I did just say my husband. Billy Ray and I have decided to reconcile and he has officially filed the paperwork to "cancel" the divorce. We are both happy and doing much better, the whole family is. This was a very hard and stressful time for not only Billy Ray and I but also our children and when people constantly tried to get information it made it worse. Communication was a huge issue in our marriage and even in our family, just like everyone else's. When everyone is always on the go, doing something different and never on the same page things just get out of hand. We realized that even though we had fallen apart that maybe it wasn't the best option to be divorced, and that we still had a chance of working it out. We have started working things out and like I said everything is much better. We are focusing on rebuilding our marriage and our family and we thank everyone who has given us and continues to give us support during these hard and rocky times! Our fans are truly the greatest support system and we appreciate everything you all do. 

Billy Ray's GQ article was seen as bashing the family and Disney. What people don't understand is that he had done that article in December, in the midst of everything. He was angry and he was watching his whole life fall to pieces just like the rest of us. He did admit on "The View" that it wasn't the best idea to let them in and to do the interview but he did it and we can't do anything about it now. What he said was mostly out of anger. Were we upset when it first came out? Yes, of course we were because of the way he handled it and said things but you have to look at the whole picture.  He was alone, it was near Christmas time and we were in the middle of filing and going through a divorce, and watching everything spin out of control. Those times were hard and December was the month we got married which didn't help at all either. He has apologized for what he said and he realizes that some of what he said came out wrong. We as a family have forgiven him and we hope that you all do too. Everyone makes mistakes, ours are just shown everywhere. 

"Every Rose Has it's Thorn" will be released soon! We are excited to be releasing it, Miley and Bret both worked very hard on this song. I know she is excited to finally be able to release it as a single, since it was supposed to be done awhile ago.  The reason it was never released was because when it came time to release it and everything started falling apart there were rumors going around that I had an affair with Bret. That is NOT true. I did attend a concert of his, and we had talked on the phone and through e-mails but everything was business related. When the rumors came out, we had to delay the release. We are excited that everything is back on track though. Everything has just been falling into place, in every area of our lives. 

I believe that is all that really needs to be cleared up right now, I will do another blog soon. I'm going to try and do this at least once a week. My family and I would like to thank you for all of the support you have given us during all of this and the hard times. We appreciate the prayers and concerns, we are just trying to live day to day like everyone else. We are happy, and glad that things are working out and thankful that God let us see the light! We are going to be focusing on bringing our family back together and staying positive. Thank you all once again, we really do appreciate our fans and the love and support and we can't say that enough. Without you all we wouldn't be here! 

xoxo Tish

CRAZY!

This week has definitely been a crazy one and it's only Wednesday! How can that be possible? And why does this week feel like it's dragging on? Oh well, nothing we can do!

This week Miley did go off on a photographer. He basically ran me over while attempting to get his photographs. I was not a happy person and neither was Miley. I've already seen a video of the incident and you can hear me in the background, but they mainly got Miley going off. Do I condone this kind of behavior has been the main question I have gotten since this all came out. She did go a little overboard and we did talk about it but given the situation we were both upset that he would have the audacity to trample me to get a picture. You can hear me in the background telling her that we needed to leave. Miley was very upset and had every right to be, they are getting out of hand and incidents like this are not only dangerous for us but for everyone around us. 

My youngest, Noah, who is eleven did get braces! She was in pain for a few days but is feeling much better since she is finally getting use to them. Thank you to everyone who has shown concern over it and we are glad that she is feeling better! I was starting to get tired of the whining, and like any other mother I hate to see my baby girl in pain!

Miley is going on another tour, and she is very excited to get back on the road to be able to connect with her fans through music again. We have just gotten a schedule and will release it as soon as possible. 

So Undercover and LOL are both set to release this year, as long as everything goes as planned! We are excited to see what kind of ratings they both bring in and we are thrilled for you all to be able to see it. Miley worked very hard on both of these movies and she hopes that you all love them as much as she loved making them!

I don't think there is anything else that I can say or clear up at the moment. I will be posting as often as possible or when I feel I need to say something about a situation or event. If you have any questions for me or you'd like me to clear something up you can send it to formspring.me/mommacyrus

xoxo Tish

Thank you.

Well I have finally been convinced to make a blog! I hope you all will follow me on here and read this, since that is the reason I have finally made one.
I will be doing my best to clear up rumors, address issues, and just give updates as to what is going on in our family. I'm not sure that I will be posting anything to deep into my life or as to what I'm really feeling only because my words get twisted and I don't need that and I don't need everyone knowing what is truly going on inside of my head.
Thank you all for reading this and I will be posting some new blogs tonight!
xox Tish